Engagement, Real Nashville Weddings, Wedding Ceremony

July 4, 2022

Hiring the Right Wedding Officiant

Hiring the right Nashville wedding officiant is important.

Why are we bringing this up?

In addition to wedding planning, we also offer officiating and we feel it is important to focus specifically on the couples who truly value their wedding ceremony when we are officiating…the entire reason for us gathering together on your special day is your actual wedding ceremony, after all, so be sure you hire the right Nashville wedding officiant for your special day.

A man wearing a black suit kneels in the grass as he holds up an engagement ring. A woman in a short ivory and gold sequined dress with an ivory flower crown bends down towards him laughing. Large light up letters that say YES are in the background with string lighting hanging from the trees.

Does guest count matter?

We often hear things like, “we are having a smaller wedding with only 30 guests.” Doesn’t matter one single iota. It will still require the same amount of work regardless of whether you have 30 guests or 300 guests. Our Nashville wedding officiant will still spend countless hours working with you to create the perfect, unique ceremony written to specifically reflect your personal love story.

What about my budget?

Or we will hear “Oh, but our budget is only XX” after receiving the pricing for our officiating packages. We understand that not everyone will want to pay what our Nashville wedding officiant is charging and we are happy to recommend other wedding officiants, but keep in mind that quality vendors aren’t going to sacrifice their hard earned fee to accommodate you…especially when they will still be putting in the same amount of effort and hours to produce the level of quality they have become known for.

“Do you ever do deals for exposure?”

No. We have found that exposure does not pay the bills. We also find that people who suggest this type of collaboration aren’t the type of people our Nashville wedding officiant prefers to collaborate with.

“My friend’s was an officiant was only $XX”

Hmmmm….what can we (politely) say? Perhaps get their name and lock them down then?! If you are aware of an extraordinary talent who charges peanuts then why contact us?

Keeping in mind the costs.

Keep in mind that vendors who provide a service instead of a product still have to put in the same about of work regardless of the number of attendees. The vendors and the service or product that they offer and the impact they have, not only on the wedding day, but during the lengthly lead up is vitally important to how much stress you will have to endure before you actually walk down the aisle.

Choose wisely.

Couples who choose wisely and value their vendors will have the best experience. Your vendor team, (especially your wedding planner and officiant) have an enormous influence over your entire experience. We have heard so many stories…many were not positive ones. It is disappointing, but you do get what you pay for.

Share your experiences!

All that said, if your experience was epic because of a legendary vendor team, please be sure to give them a shout out on your social media and definitely leave them an amazing five star review.

Fleriza
Bride
“I would give Raina and her team 10 stars if I could.”
Jessica
Bride
“I am so grateful I was able to get Raina to plan my wedding.”
Stacy
Bride
“Raina van Setter was the best wedding planner imaginable!! Paid attention to every detail and made our day magical, we wouldn’t have had the amazing wedding without her and her fantastic team! ”
Molly
Bride
“Far exceeded our expectations!! She made wedding planning a breeze. We feel so blessed to have had her as our wedding planner!!!”
Sandy
Bride
“Our guests emphatically stated that our wedding was one of the best weddings they ever attended.”
Lisa
Mother of the Bride
“Our daughter’s wedding was PERFECTION! We have Raina to thank for that!”
Karen
Caterer
“Hands down one of the best wedding planners in the business.”
Kim
Bride
“She made me feel like Cinderella! Raina is, hands down, the best wedding coordinator. She took care of literally everything.”
Mercyette
Bride
“Every vendor she recommended was a dream. Even held my hand when I was nervous during the ceremony line up.”
Emelie
Bride
“Raina is PHENOMENAL! Five star plus, plus, plus ++++! Such a JOY! Raina is the BEST!! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🤩”
  1. Lindsay Zilke says:

    Such great advice!! Having the best wedding officiant is a must!!! You’re the best!!

  2. Alysse says:

    Go cheap and you’ll get a cheap experience. It’s your wedding day!! Don’t you want it to be perfect?

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